For a while now, I've considered myself as gay. I however don't think this is quite accurate. Most of the time, I'm attracted to guys (physically, romantically, and emotionally), but every so often, I can go a week or so, up to a month, noticing primarily my attraction to females and nonbinary people. I know that sexuality and romantic attraction can be fluid like this, but I'm not sure for a name to describe how I feel.:help:
There are a LOT or reasons for your feelings. It could be you have not fully exhausted "explore and discover" behavior, a behavior that normally occurs when one is in their teens. I suggest you start a journal to examine your attractions and life events. Write down the times you were attracted to guys. Girls. Write down sexual events. Find someone to confide in to reflect on the the entries that "stump" you. What you are looking for are clues to your innate sexuality. I did this. My journal is roughly 30 pages long. I found a person on ECs who is clearly gay to confide in and we converse via private message utility. This exercise helped me understand past events, events traumatic enough to basically blank out key details. This exercise helped him to, for he opened up on similar events is his life. Takes work but what the hell, thats what Seattle coffee shops are for. Later
