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I think I like both but I'm not sure since I've never been with either?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by still ill, Sep 30, 2015.

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  1. still ill

    still ill
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    Hi everybody, I post here quite often, usually repeating the same thing over and over again but I was wondering if anyone has ever thought they were a specific orientation and then realized their thoughts were wrong? I think I like both men and women equally romantically and mostly women sexually but there are still rare instances I will find the male genitalia sexy.

    Also, I was wondering if fantasizing about the opposite sex's genitalia meant that I want it in real life? When I think about male genitalia I sometimes, but rarely get turned on but it's hard to see myself actually sleeping with a guy.

    Sorry these questions are a bit weird I just can't seem to get the answer and I'm way too shy to go out and casually date/sleep with people to find out. :/
     
    #1 still ill, Sep 30, 2015
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  2. ForNarnia

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    Technically speaking, if you find yourself sexually attracted to both, regardless of experience, that would mean you like both. However, from what I understand from your message, at this stage, you just don't know, and that's perfectly fine. Just take some time out to figure out what it is you want :slight_smile: You can take as much time as you need.
     
    #2 ForNarnia, Oct 1, 2015
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