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Bi or straight?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by howtosavealife, Oct 1, 2015.

  1. howtosavealife

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    Straight but curious
    I am attracted to males physically and emotionally but I get really turned on by lesbian porn and naked females especially the boob area. I've talked to my dad about it and he said that being my father he would KNOW I wasn't straight. He said I started watching porn at an impressionable age and that its normal to be confused at my age. But what do you think? Is this normal? Or am I bi?
     
  2. YinYang

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    Well, porn isn't a good way of figuring out sexuality, so have you ever had a crush on a girl? Or wanted to have sex with a girl? Or has it always been just guys?
     
  3. howtosavealife

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    Also, i've noticed lately that everything will be completely normal and right when I start thinking about this, i'll like look at one of my friends and get some image of us grinding and I don't want it to always be like this i'm sooo soo lost. Because I just really can't even see myself having sex with a girl like it's cool to imagine it watching porn but not in real life... Ugh.
     
  4. Aster

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    Romantic and sexual attraction are two different things. Romantic attraction is like you said, physicality and emotionally. Sexual attraction is basically when you're so attracted to someone that you want to be sexually intimate with them.

    Sounds to me that you might be a heteromantic homosexual (or bi/pan/poly, depends on whether you find males and non-binaries sexually attractive or not). So you might be romantically attracted to males but sexually attracted to females.