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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by hopeless 23, Oct 2, 2015.

  1. hopeless 23

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    I'm looking for advice. I've always had sex with women and loved it. However the fact that I can tell if guys are good looking convinces me I'm gay. I've watched hours of gay porn and never get aroused. I watch lesbians and get hard. I love going to strip clubs with women, but being able to think men are good looking is so gay. I'm worried I'm gay In denial.
     
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    Always been attracted to women and had sex with women. However I can tell if men are good looking. I don't get erections from gay porn, but seeing a good looking guy causes anxiety and sexual questioning. Need advice if I'm in denial.
     
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    I've merged these threads because they are the same topic. Try to avoid duplications in the future.

    Now, from what you've described, it doesn't seem like you have much homosexual attractions, but why are you watching hours of gay porn? There are plenty of straight men who can also identify physical attractiveness in other men, but they don't need porn to know. It's not "so gay", which sounds like you are repeating homophobic judgments. Besides, what about bisexuality? Sexuality is not black-and-white.