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Depressed dont know what is the right thing

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  1. Monak

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    Long story short i am dating a guy 1 and a half year and i dated a girl too like 3 months in the same time bc i always had been attracted by girls. But somehow i cant let him go and i know i am not fully happy with him i always look in girls and get insecure around them. What is the smart thing to do i dont feel like loosing him also. Am i insane ?? Lol
     
    #1 Monak, Oct 2, 2015
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    You're not insane, if that helps. I can't tell you what to do, but you should do what feels right, at the right pace. Never rush. Slow n' steady wins the race, especially if you're racing your heart.
     
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    Its so hard to know that my bf stays at my place instead at his and i cant think clearly like that , when trying to tell him to give me space he is always acting up and he knows i am attracted by girls and he is getting even more jealous then usual.
     
    #3 Monak, Oct 4, 2015
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    Okay. You need to tell him how you feel. Clarity is essential. Be gentle, but be clear in how you feel.
     
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    He knows it and still
     
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    You intend to be with him?If you do then tell him make him calm,if not tell him about that also because after all he is still with you right?You were with girl he didnt leave you,that guy loves you very much so tell him darling you want to be with him and the attraction to girls stay attraction or not because thats the only way not to be jealos when he is sure and everyone will be happy.
     
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    The point is that he doesnt get how i feel like never ! So i am doubtfull about all of it to be honest it didnt seem right he is acting like that since day one not from yesterday..
     
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    So if he is the worst person in the world why you are with him?You want to be with him then not,you love him then dont,he is good then bad it sounds like you need excuse to break with him or for something else because if he is so bad person you two wouldnt be together so long and after everything.Somehow doesnt have sense.
     
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    Thanks.i am not here to be judged.
     
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    Yeah and im not judging you just want to say we can say whatever,at the end you are living your life we can not say do this do that it is your life darling whatever happens we wont feel it :frowning2:
     
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    Of course but the thing is that how to put the attraction for gorls on the side i feel like i cant but at the same time i cant leave him either. Its very hard believe me
     
    #11 Monak, Oct 8, 2015
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    So
     
    #12 Monak, Oct 12, 2015
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