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Am I Just Confused??

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by anonymous cat, Oct 18, 2015.

  1. anonymous cat

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    Okay so I've been having this small problem that has been stressin me out, I feel like I like guys, I have fantasies with guys (Me being submissive and a bit more feminine then other guys) but i don't have fantasies about being with women. But the weird part is that i don't get turned on by gay porn, on the other hand I can get turned on by straight and SOMETIMES lesbian porn. I have never been in a relationship and I'm in only high-school. What does this mean? Am I gay like I think? Am I straight? Or am I just curious and this is all a phase?

    Any help would be greatly appreciated.

    Thanks!! :kiss:
     
  2. YinYang

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    Porn isn't a good indicator of sexuality, so if you are sexually attracted to guys and not girls, I think it's safe to say you're gay.
     
  3. OnTheHighway

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    Sounds like you have more accessing to do before coming to any conclusions. But as the post above suggests, I would not view porn as any type of indication. More significant is what turns you on when you are alone just fantasizing without any external stimulus.
     
  4. bidemi

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    it may be that u are homoromantic but prefer hetero sex
     
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    I think it's not something you should go jumping to conclusions with. And one important thing that you have to remember, is that sexual orientation isn't a black and white thing. You're unique, and so are your attractions. You don't have to just slap a gay label on you and focus on men. Take the time and explore your desires and imagination, and come to your own conclusion. You don't have to like JUST men or JUST women, and you don't even have to like both equally.