How do you know if someone is flirting with you?

That's a tough one. One of my coworkers always talked about girls, and yet he's aware of a hookup app for gay men and has claimed to use it before. When I made it for lifeguards a couple weeks ago he gave me a MUA on the cheek in front of a lot of my co workers (and he already knew that I was gay, I told him but not everyone).

He's freaking hot, but I can tell that he's into women a lot more than men. I haven't asked about his sexual orientation though.

Can't help you much, but watch for the way the person acts or talks, or what the he/she talks about. Their ideals, who they want to marry, etc.

 

I can relate to this a lot. A lot of times people are joking. Deep down I hope they're not and really do want to hold hands and kiss and all that stuff on a more-than-friends level. >.<