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I think im a lesbian but I have a boyfriend... Help

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Amberlly, Nov 1, 2015.

  1. Amberlly

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    Hi, recently I've been questioning my sexuality and my friends suggested I find more information on is from those who have been in something similar to my situation.

    I belive I'm a lesbian as I have no attraction to guys in any way, shape or form, not even a tiny bit. I do however really love my boyfriend and care for him a lot but he's the only guy I've ever gone out with, I've been with him for over 2 years now and im happy wih him but I can't help but wish he was female instead. I met him online and fell for him before I knew he was a he. I find girls so much more desireable to just be around and be in romantic relationships with, girls are the only gender I have any form of attraction too.

    I use the term lesbian right now as I feel that it fits me more than any other. I do fermily belive that you can be gay and date someone of the oposite gender and still be gay, but I want to be sure on this.

    If anyone has anything they can say to this for help or whatever it would be much appreciated, thank you.
     
  2. cheerlesbo

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    Remember, we define labels, they don't define us. If you feel like lesbian is the most accurate label for your sexuality, by all means use it.
     
  3. Amberlly

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    I compleatly forgot that, in my confused I over looked that entirely, thank you