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Can i be gay but get erections from kissing girls

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by bungholio124, Nov 10, 2015.

  1. bungholio124

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    Eventually i do get blue balls from this..
    any gay men that have kissed girls chime in?
    thanks.

    ---------- Post added 10th Nov 2015 at 12:33 AM ----------

    Eventually I do get blue balls from this,
    Its fun and I enjoy it.
    but im still questioning, so if any gay men that have kissed girls chime in
    thanks
     
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    I actually get turned off. It's definitely fun, but it's not arousing to me. It can get arousing if they were to try to be more intimate, but never with just kissing.
     
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    I know I certainly haven't had that sort of reaction from kissing a girl, but I really don't know.
    You might be bisexual for all you know, I know I went through a romantic relationship with a girl for 6 months but I found little sexual attraction at all, so I guess that crossed that off the list. You could also be heterosexual (Straight) for all I know too. It really depends on whether you like guys too. I'm the only mostly out gay guy in my school so... Yeah...

    I kissed her (now my ex but one of my best friends) a couple of times but, yep nothing.

    Just be with who you want to be with :icon_wink
     
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    Ive thought about that as well. I've kissed and made out with a girl whom I found attractive and I actually got an erection. I've also held hands with a girl and I've also got an erection.

    Even then, I still tell people I'm gay even though there are some exceptions for identifying as gay. Things might change, but right now gay is what fits me.
     
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    thanks for the replies all..
     
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    Well i never hear about guy who identify himself as fully gay and still got erections from kissing girls :slight_smile:

    Especially from kissing cause this is something (in my opinion) more romantic :slight_smile:
    Sounds more like bisexual.