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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Brutusbeefcake, Nov 16, 2015.

  1. Brutusbeefcake

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    Hello all new member here.
    I'm very confused about my sexuality and i have been for the past 20 years or so. I really need someone to talk to as its gone on long enough and its driving me mad! Thanks.
     
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    Hello again! What's going on?
     
  3. Brutusbeefcake

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    Hello. Let me start off by saying ive been with a great woman for 8 years. Its just ive had strong urges to go with a man ever since i was in my very early teens. Its not just a sexual attraction either. Also i get shy and blush like a bastard if a hot guy walks in! Im proper mixed up!
     
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    Do you love her? Are you married? Do you feel sexually attracted to her? If the answer to those 3 questions is yes, then it would be the same as saying you want to cheat on her with somebody, just that it happens to be a man.

    If you don't feel sexually attracted to her, it really depends if you feel like it is worth it to stay in the relationship with her. Good luck.