I enjoy sex with my girlfriend and really like her. I also have regular sex with men, but everything about it feels different. With my girlfriend, I am clearly the dominate one. I work hard to please her but I am in charge. With men, I am submissive. I do what my man wants to please him, usually without anything done for me. Is this what being a bisexual is? I have stressed over friends and family finding out and what to call myself, maybe more over what others will call me. Are other bisexuals like me?
So I consider myself bisexual. I have had sex with guy but I am the bottom and I service their needs but I like to dress like a woman when with a man. I did have a girlfriend for a couple months until I told her about the crossdressing which is weird to me because she is all about accepting gay people but me liking women's clothes that was just not okay. I don't understand why that was so bad.
Does your girlfriend know about you having sex with others? Bisexuality is really about sexual attraction, not the role you play in sex itself, so as long as you feel attracted to men and women, it is an appropriate label.
