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Unsure of sexuality

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by happycheetha32, Nov 21, 2015.

  1. Hey, so i have tried to experiment my sexuality for example, watching both gay and straight porn. I seem to get a boner to gay porn and not to straight porn...did i find out my sexuality or should i keep going deeper?
     
  2. Chip

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    Hi, and welcome to EC.

    Porn isn't the most reliable means of determining sexual orientation, but in this case, if you have a strong response to gay porn and no response at all to straight porn, that's probably at least an indicator to explore further.

    What I normally suggest is masturbating without porn, and in one session, thinking about girls... and then, in another session, thinking about guys... and then, in a third session, simply letting your mind wander and see what images it brings up if you don't consciously pay attention.

    Usually after you've gone through that exercise, it will be pretty clear which team you're batting for. :slight_smile:

    SO I'd say give that a try and then, if you need further clarification or want to ask more questions, feel free to post a follow-up here.