Heya, so I'm really confused about my sexuality and where I stand. I have emotional and physical attractions to boys and have done so for a long time. But recently I have started to have more physical attractions to girls and slightly less physical attractions towards boys. I tried to watch different things online to figure out what I liked. The thing is, I seem to get aroused while watching Gay porn, but when I'm aroused I can watch straight stuff and it gets me even more aroused, but it doesn't get me excited if watching straight stuff on its own. After I'm 'finished' watching gay stuff i feel slightly uncomfortable, but after watching straight stuff I wonder if I actually like boys at all because It seems to, sometimes arouse me more. For a while I thought I was completely gay, now I'm not so sure. Can anyone help?
ok,yeah i can see how that is confusing and theres no right answer except the one u give yourself. u get aroused seing gay porn and the straigh porn (but only if u r fist estimulated by gay porn)... so from here i take...u like guys and u like sex, not necessarily girls. many people get aroused watching straight porn cause it was what we saw in movies as growing up, most of people get aroused by straigh sex since its sex anyways and we r kinda "used to it. how about lesbian porn, or just a girl on her own? have u tryed that? and what about girls around u without any stimulatin before do u feel atracted to a girl friend u have or anyone from the feminine sex?
From what I gather, porn is not a good indicator of sexuality. Your IRL desires are. If you're more into girls now then you're more into girls; allow yourself to experiment (with consent of course). If you find that you're just a bicurious gay man, that's okay too. You do you.
Thank you for the help guys, I really appreciate it! Brienne, I don't normally get attracted to girls really, it's more of a sexual curiosity. Girls on their own don't turn me on at all. They might do if I'd watched gay porn first, but without that they don't.
