I've been questioning my sexuality for a while. Still I'd like to explore a bit. I've typically only been attracted to women, when I feel a strong emotional attraction. I feel kind of guilty looking for an opposite sex relationship when I'm questioning my own sexuality. Have you ever felt this way? Does it feel ok to see if anything would come of it?
If you're looking, then you probably aren't straight. Just be honest with yourself when you find yourself thinking about a particular male and you'll be fine
When I was seeing a girl but also questioning my sexuality i felt VERY VERY guilty. It drove me insane. I felt so bad for spending time with ther and not knowing whether i was genuine or not. I know it says ivep ut "gay" on my profile for EC... but im still not enitrely convinced that i am fully gay.
Oh gosh yes. This is what prevents me from seeking relationships with girls. I don't want to lead them on, hurt them, waste each other's time, etc. On the flip side, would seeking relationships with men make you feel guilty since you're attracted to women? A question for bisexuals I think. I think the guilt should go away if you're upfront and honest with your date. But if you're not out or unsure, then that obviously isn't going to happen.
Isn't any relationship potentially "wasting" the other person's time? How do you know if something will work out if you don't try it? I would suggest being honest that you're questioning your sexuality with anyone you're dating; if it's a hook-up, then it's probably unnecessary. But if it's something that could lead to a relationship, mention it, male or female. And here's the thing. I am bisexual and was perfectly content in an 18+ year relationship with a man. I was not concerned about whether I was leading him on, hurting him, or wasting his time, because I knew he was the person I wanted to be with, even if I might equally enjoy being with a woman. Right now, I'm in a month-long relationship with a woman, and I'm not concerned that I'm leading her on, or hurting her, or wasting her time, because she is the person I want to be with. If you find yourself attracted to someone and wanting to be with them, be honest, but don't let it consume you, you know? Best of luck!
