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My orientation... Help?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by iDunnodude, Nov 28, 2015.

  1. iDunnodude

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    Background info: I've been questioning myself since I was about 12-13, thinking that I'm possibly bi, but now I'm trying to stick to my theory (I'm a pretty indecisive and doubting person in general) and see what'll happen in the future, so now I call myself bi-ish. I've never had any experiences what so ever and most of my crushes, at least the heaviest ones, have been on guys. I think I had a crush on a girl this one time a few years ago and I think I'm feeling sexually curious about a close female friend of mine.
    I've also started to come out to my closest people (including said friend) as "possibly bi" but I don't know, do you think I seem "bi" enough to actually call myself bisexual?

    Things I can see myself doing with a guy at the moment:
    [X] Being in a romantic relationship
    [-] Having sex (Not sure, but probably not oral, I think. Although I can find the male body sexually attractive, sometimes more than the female body.)
    [X] Kissing/making out (Probably, I guess.)
    [X] Cuddling.

    Things I can see myself doing with a girl at the moment:
    [-] Being in a romantic relationship (Not sure. Feels like it's more likely to be with a guy.)
    [X] Having sex
    [X] Kissing/making out (Oh God, yes!)
    [X] Cuddling. (<3)
     
  2. DinelodiiGitli

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    It's possible to be bi (sexual and romantic) and have a preference. It's not uncommon for some one who is bi to be more romantically or sexually inclined towards one gender and/or sex.
    If you're attracted to two or more genders you are plenty bi enough. No worries, try not to get to caught up in labels. ^^
     
  3. iDunnodude

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    I see what you mean. :slight_smile:
    I'm just the kind of person who wants to know things for sure, so I kinda prefer having a label at least for myself so I can put my mind at rest, hehe.