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Questioning my sexuality

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by frankenfairy, Dec 5, 2015.

  1. frankenfairy

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    Location:
    Minnesota
    Gender:
    Female
    Sexual Orientation:
    Questioning
    Out Status:
    Not out at all
    So I'm new here! Mostly I just have questions about my sexuality because I think I might be lesbian or bi but I'm not sure. I've never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy and although I've had a few crushes it's never gotten serious. For a while, when I saw another girl that I thought was attractive to me I would get a gut feeling like I was in trouble or something. I'm not sure why because my family would be super accepting if I came out but it still happened. So I just generally ignored this but then a couple months ago a close girl friend of mine came out to me as a lesbian. Since then I have been thinking about it a lot and come to terms with the fact that I may be lesbian or bi. However the more I think I'm okay with it the less sure I am that I am gay. Because since I've "accepted" it the gut feeling has stopped. So I'm not sure if I'm gay or not because the thing I thought was what was telling me I was gay stopped happening. However that could just be because I've accepted and no longer feel like I'm doing anything wrong. To make things more complicated, I think I might have a crush on the friend who came out to me a while back. I want to tell her that I'm gay because I know she would accept me and be fine with it but I'm worried it would just change the nature of our friendship and she's one of my closest friends. I don't know what to do now because I want to come out to her and others if I am gay but I'm no longer sure? Thanks for reading all of this! I know it was long. What do you think I should do?