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Increasing Attraction

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by deep six, Dec 7, 2015.

  1. deep six

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    So.. ive recently come to the threads mostly to ask one simple question, if Im homosexual but also bi-romantic(seems to me that this isn't uncommon with boys my age), is there a way to somehow kindle the romantic attractions towards girls, into sexual attractions? I know this is part of the whole debate on wether you can change/ influence sexuality, but at this point in my life, it would just make my life more complicated to live as fully gay. I don't fear hate from family as were all pretty liberal, but if I can live my life as "straight" because of even the teeniest attraction towards women then its something in my life that i need to do.

    So please, if you've ever heard of ways of becoming even slightly attracted to girls please let me know. Ive heard of things like masturbating to straight porn but yet to try it, but it seems too good to be true anyways.
     
  2. IrishBuddha6

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    You can't force change but change can come on its own. In other words, just live life. You're young, you got plenty of time to figure it out. Explore your feelings. Don't force anything but don't be afraid to feel.
     
  3. baddech

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    Try taking viagra and then having sex with a girl. I got the idea from Tyra Banks talk show with the heterosexual gay porn actors.