I'm perfectly fine with the idea of being bi, but I want to be sure before I ask a girl out for the first time. I don't want to enter a relationship under false pretenses. Signs I like girls: -I've always loved sexy voluptuous female figures. -I've often been aroused by well-endowed female celebrities. -I have romantic feelings toward a girl (who likes girls) -I fantasize about breasts Signs I don't like girls: -I can't orgasm when fantasizing about sex with this girl -I'm not aroused by lesbian porn -I can only orgasm when fantasizing about a phallus What do you all think? Thank you! (!)
It's a bit difficult to say, but it definitely seems like you have a strong attraction to women. I wouldn't base your ideas of what your sexuality too much on porn because some people have their own preferences when it comes to that (eg just because someone doesn't find porn arousing doesn't necessarily make them asexual). Also not being able to masturbate to the woman you love may just be because you like her more romantically or sexually. If you really love this girl and feel like you could commit then I'd say give it a go. See if it works out or not and if it doesn't, there'll be plenty of time and opportunities to experiment and see what works in the future. At this stage, try not to obsess too much over labels and definitions and just do you! Best of luck!
