Lesbians, areyou ever attracted to really feminine men?

what happens to me is when i see gay feminine dudes that are attractive looking i feel almost turned on becuz i love gay porn, then i feel like "damn if i was a gay dude id hella be on his nuts" or "itd be fun to be him for like a day"..but i dont feel like i wanna kiss or mess around with them, i guess in a wierd way i also feel alittle jealous, maybe cuz guys have it so damn good and it makes me think "now theyre pretty too?" lol idk im wierd i guess...

 

I can't speak for gay women, but when I see a really masculine woman, I do get slightly turned on, lol. Especially when they have short hair.

 

I also can't speak for gay women, but when I see a really masculine woman, I get EXTREMELY turned on! But then again, I'm bi, so its more expected. But I have known bi women who are really into feminine men.

Moreover, when I see or meet a really attractive masculine woman, I tend to start acting more feminine. Weird, huh?

 

Likewise if you see feminine men does the same thing happen ? Given you are gay

 

I don't really connect male femininity with being female so it's hard for me to see them as anything but men. I would say that I find masculine men to be a bit more attractive when I am friends with them and don't feel threatened, just because it makes me feel safe somehow to be around them.

 

Well, I'm bisexual, not gay, so I'm not exactly sure what you mean.

I am attracted to some fairly feminine men, but in that case, I might tend to butch up slightly.

 

Every once in a while. I met a trans guy who I thought was very attractive.

 

mmh no! i sometimes thought some emo boys are pretty but other feminine guys mmh nono

 

Well I like feminine guys. I do tend to appear more masculine around other guys regardless of orientation, though. Also, I'm sassy around women lol.

 

Yeah, I've been kind of interested in some of my girlier guy friends before. It's mostly been from a curiosity standpoint. Plus I think part of it's cause I used to assume I was looking for a boyfriend, so when I tried to figure out which one I was interested in I always ended up picking the girly ones :icon_bigg

I don't know. I'm probably not representative of all lesbians, but I'm usually attracted to girly people, and I'd probably be more into a girly guy than a guyish girl, though I think I'd prefer the girl in the long run. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ But you know, at the end of the day, whatever floats your boat.

 

Kinda relate to this. I would in no way consider myself feminine although I have certain traits in that I look after myself, wear tight fitting clothes etc. In the past I've mainly been with the typical girly girl where I feel all masculine by comparison, however I have this kinda weird turn on relating to not necessarily masculine, but more domineering women. The thought of the woman taking control thus allowing me to express more of my feminine side is kinda appealing..

 

I read another post of yours, and I wondered if you might feel that way, Jase.
Your not alone, and it's okay. I know it can be difficult to buck the media brainwashing that says you should only date stereotypical "hot" feminine girls/women, but I'd encourage you to follow your instinct and try dating more domineering or masculine women. Screw what anyone else thinks.

 

I personally can be attracted to men who have very similar likes and/or personalities as me. I have been dealing with these feelings lately even though I would highly prefer to be romantic with a woman. It can be confusing.
Also, remember that there are lesbians who marry men. Some who are ok with it and some who aren't. Same with bisexual women who marry men but prefer women.

 

At this point it's not something that appeals on a regular basis, just one of those things that I'd be open to trying out. I highly favour more feminine women in terms of relationships. Although it's definitely something where if the woman was into it, I'd be kinda turned on by the thought of it due to it being such a huge break from the norm. Along with also giving the more masculine part of me a break and bringing the more feminine part of me out.

 

I kinda think that im a pan because i would date a feminine man or women or nonbinary person or a trans person maybe a masculine girl, anyone but not a cis straight masculine boy

 

I'm a 54yo bi-guy and I can find butch/tomboyish women attractive. So I don't see why it couldn't be true the other way around.

 

Well, not really. OK sometimes.