Hello Everyone, Sorry this post might jump around a bit but I’ll try to keep it consistent. I desperately need some guidance from those in the…for lack of a better term…the closet community about what my own sexuality is. After doing the research on the different sexualities and spectrums, I feel as though I fit into several different categories. A little about me: I am a 26 year old straight male, who is very in tuned to his feminine side. Out of the 5 girls I’ve dated in my entire life, only 1 was I sexually active with. I have been attracted to body or personality but soon after the attraction vanishes and for me the one girl I was sexually active with became an almost Friends with Benefits though we dated for 3 years before breaking up. Through experimentation I know for certain that I am straight and find girls pleasing to the eye. I am in love with the idea of love and believe in “Love at first sight” though I’ve never experienced it personally. I am fascinated with the BDSM culture and thus also have a high sex drive and normally masturbate anywhere from 15-20 times in a week. Um…I know I’m missing information but I can’t think of what else to add. If y’all could help me figure out what I am I would greatly appreciate it. Please ask if you need more information Thank You! LorwynLoup
There is a type of sexual/romantic orientation know as lithromantic/lithsexual. Here are some definitions i found on an Asexual spectrum blog ⇨Lithromantic: A person who experiences romantic attraction but has no desire to have their feelings reciprocated. Sometimes, but not always, includes dislike of or aversion towards romantic relationships. ⇨Lithsexual (or lithosexual): A person who experiences sexual attraction but has no desire to have their feelings returned, or who does not like being on the receiving end of sexual contact. This might not fit how you are feeling but it is worth a look into if it does
(i felt like doing some research into sexuality just now so i found some new facts) Lithosexual/romantic is also known as akiosexual/romantic
I don't watch live action porn that often I watch more of the animated stuff and read erotica more than watching porn. If I do watch porn its more for the sounds than what is actually on the screen.