Submissive people, have you ever been attracted to someone shorter than you?

If I may ask, what exactly is it about height that makes them unattractive to you?

I feel like when you're in the heat of the moment, height doesn't matter at all. The guy can be several inches shorter than you, but when you're kissing, it's like bliss, and you forget about small details.

 

Well, I'm 6'2" so pretty much anyone I usually come across is shorter. Cute is cute, height is rather insignificant.

 

I'm 6'6 and submissive lol. I have no choice.
I'd admit that if I did have the choice I probably would chose someone taller than me as it sort of fits in with the dominant/submissive roles but I cannot imagine (regardless of my height) that it would be a deal breaker whatsoever.

 

I'm both, but yeah I get attracted to a lot of shorter people sometimes, mostly because I'm really tall and the rest of our school has shorter people, but yeah you get the point...

 

I'm a switch (like both top and bottom) with a submissive streak, and I'm also quite tall, so I get where your coming from. There are certain activities where it is hotter if my partner is closer to my size, and other where it doesn't matter. So I understand where your coming from, at least a bit.

However, I've also found that my partner just needs to be within a few inches of my height for it to work.

 

My Domme is shorter than I am.

 

Honestly all of my partners have been +/- 2-3 inches from me and it hasn't mattered

 

I'd love to be completely equal opportunity and say that height never matters, but when it comes to spooning, height matters to me. Its not technically a sexual act - although it often precedes or comes after a sexual act. And I personally have found that in order for me to feel comforted by being the little spoon - which is important to me and my submissive streak - the person needs to be close to my size.

My ex wife, for example, was a full foot shorter than me, and though she was a good sport, it just never felt right.

So, I must confess, I now have an unofficial dating guideline that partners need to be within 6 inches of my height. It seems to work better that way, and I don't think I'm being too picky.

 

I'm a Dom, but I have a few sub friends, and most of them have Doms who are smaller than them. It's not so much the size of a person that matters, but the magnitude of their presence.

 

I can see how submitting to someone shorter/smaller than you could be hot... as it would be more about compliance than physical strength....saying that shorter doesn't equate to weaker - they could be a pocket rocket and flatten you no matter what height you are!

 

Certainly, but they're all straight so it doesn't really matter. :lol: