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Missing own orientation

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Gola, Dec 27, 2015.

  1. Gola

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    Is it normal that a person thinks to be gay and has a relationship and after time, he discovers that he's wrong? Such when a person thinks to be straight and he or she is gay or lesbian.
     
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    I heard..well read about this happening quite a bit-
    It's often tied together with denial, the way someone was raised, simply not realizing it or traumatic incidents. But then again something like this can also be a pretty fluid process that can change at any given time for some.
     
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    Yeah, it surely happens. I think it's more common for a gay person to live in a straight relationship at first and then realize they're gay though than vice versa.
     
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    Yes, because I always know about gay that live in a straight relationship and then they discover their real orientation. So in my mind I ask if is possible happen the same but from gay to straight.
     
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    Google the word "hasbian".
     
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    Oh thank you, I've never heard this word.