Okay, so I know for a fact that i'm not just trying to force myself to be straight cause I was cuddling with someone who can be classified as a friend maybe more (a boy) and when he'd touch me, I felt electric currents run through my body...You can't force those. I can accept that i'm turned on by naked girls in porn, that doesn't define me. And I enjoy watching lesbian porn so i'm gonna continue watching lesbian porn. I really don't think i'm even bisexual...I even have dreams about naked girls but it's always like me watching them on a laptop...It's just them in porn, never me and another girl. I feel like that's kind of speaking to me. I've never had a crush on a girl, because I just don't like them like that. But me having these anxious thoughts all the time is making it difficult to define my sexuality for real. I keep thinking when I start dating a boy, i'm not gonna end up wanting to be with him and it's awful. I just wanna know what you guys think I should do or if this worrying will go away with time? Let me know.
Are you attracted to the girls in porn or are you turned on by what they're doing? I sometimes get turned on by men in porn, but I'm not really interested in actually doing stuff with men.
Try not to worry - you can't really work out what are going to like/dislike until you have tried. If you can find a nice boy then go for it and see what happens.
It is a fact that 50% of lesbian porn site subscribers are straight girls. There have also been studies (you can look more into that if you're interested) that females are more likely to be turned on by any kind of porn regardless of their sexual orientation and preferences. What happens happens. If you like a guy in the future, you like a guy. If a girl happens to come along and you like her, that's fine to. It's something to be thankful for that you've opened yourself up to thinking about this stuff. At this point, all signs that you mentioned point to you being straight. But don't focus on the strict labels like that, because that can add more stress. It's okay to just say I like guys if you're still working on figuring things out, because you know that to be true. Focus on the things you do know about yourself rather than those you don't and be thankful for them. No one has all the answers and it's great that you get to be alive and make these discoveries about yourself that no one else can. Sorry if it got a bit cheesy there, but it's true! And I hope that makes you feel better. It's hard when you get all stressed out about this stuff, but it's important to remember it's going to be okay regardless in the grand scheme of things and it's easy to get really wrapped up in it and think it's the most important thing in your life to figure out, when there are so many other things in your life and in your future.
Porn is definitely not the best way to determine if you are attracted or not to girls and it shouldn't be the guideline from which you'll draw your sexuality. Most people get turned on when watching porn and it's safe to say that not always with things that they like. Gays can enjoy watching straight porn, as a straight person can enjoy watching gay porn. You shouldn't let it define you. But if you're having doubts about your sexuality and whether you like girls, why not give it a try? See how it feels.
