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How do I know?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Confused4242, Dec 29, 2015.

  1. Confused4242

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    I am 14. I kissed a girl 2 months ago and my world was turned upside down. I LIKED it... a lot. Ever since then I notice myself checking out girl only. I noticed before that I checked out some other girls too. Am I lesbian? Bi? How do I know??
     
  2. Connorcode

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    By relaxing, waiting and seeing what happens. There's no rush, especially when you're 14!
    You'll figure it out; it might even take years to find the extremes of who you're attracted to.
    Don't worry about it too much and good luck!
     
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    It might take time, like Connorcode said. What I like to do is to focus on what I know for sure and take it from there.

    You seem sure you like girls, right? Well that's good, then you've got that one in the bag. :slight_smile:
    That leaves boys then. Maybe in time you'll find that you're attracted to guys; and maybe you won't. And either way, it's fine. :slight_smile:

    NOw, I get it if you're looking for a label. But maybe saying something like "I like girls" or "I'm mostly interested in girls". Because that's true; and it neither includes or excludes guys, which might work for you if you aren't sure.
     
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