So I had anal sex with a guy for the first time and it was like alright. I mean he took it really slow and fingered me first so it really didn't hurt at all. It did a little at first but when I relaxed it was fine. It really wasn't that great though. It was a little uncomfortable and only really felt good when he went way deep in. Does that uncomfortable feeling go away the more you do it or is it always there? I really want to enjoy anal and I feel like I can, but I want to know if these feelings are normal for the first time.