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Would you date a gay transguy?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by boatlanding, Jan 1, 2016.

  1. boatlanding

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    Gay/bi guys and fellow gay/bi transguys. =)
    I have a question I have been really insecure about...
    I am a transguy myself, and I plan to get top surgery when I get older.
    I know its too expensive to get bottom surgery but if I could I would!!!
    However I dont think its in the cards unless I suddenly get rich...
    What do you think about dating someone like me? I know since I would have a vagina technically it isnt a good thing for a gay transguy. What do you think about it? D=
     
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    For me, it all depends on their personality for the most part. Not to mention it wouldn't bother me.
     
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    If we have a good connection and similar interests, then yes, I would. Parts don't matter to me, as long as you have a good heart and you aren't an asshole, and I think most people are that way too.

    My partner is a trans guy, and he's my best friend, and we've been together for three years as of June.
     
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    I don't see why not, Gender has no meaning to me, I'll date whatever, if they're attractive
     
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    Well, it'd be pretty hypocritical for me not to, no?

    I'm attracted to men, not penis.
     
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    I would if I was attracted to you/my type - for me its more about having the image of a man/boyishness masculinity than whats between the legs! Contrary to what others might say we're not all dick crazy.

    I would admit Id be more likely to be attracted after breast-removal

    also i have a thing for short guys - so a small stature is appealing (not that all biological woman are short.... what I mean is heights not an issue - which I know is for many gay guys)
     
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    I would so date a transguy! I am attracted to everyone so it doesn't really matter to me :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    If you're not a douchebag, we would have no problems.


    I'm not saying I think you are. I'm just saying, parts don't matter.

    To me. In terms of a relationship.

    Or doing the deed.






    Yes. Yes I would be okay with dating someone in your position.
     
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    Of course I would be okay with dating a trans guy. I was actually crushing on a trans guy earlier this year before me and my boyfriend got together. If I like you, I like you. :slight_smile:
     
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    Honestly, I'm not too sure how I would fare as I have an oral fixation (*cough*), but that doesn't mean I wouldn't give it a try, though.
     
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    I would date a transgender male. The parts don't really change whether or not they are a man to me personally.
     
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    I'm a lesbian so I don't know whether my answer is helpful, but I would date a trans woman with a penis. I'm attracted to a female appearance, but genitals don't matter to me at all.

    It will matter to some guys, yes, but you should be able to find guys who'd love to date you.

    Incidentally, I was reading about a gay trans male pornstar the other day (who's really cute, btw). Not putting any links here for obvious reasons, but it goes to show that there are people who find all types of bodies desirable.
     
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    Yes. It wouldn't bother me at all
     
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    I'm a transguy just like you, and I certainly wouldn't be opposed to dating someone else like me. In fact, I was only planning on going through hormone therapy and top surgery as well when I get older. I know I can't afford the bottom surgery.
     
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    I would date a transexual male who had a bottom surgery

    ---------- Post added 7th Jan 2016 at 04:29 PM ----------

    and btw if that guy in the picture its you, damn you are super cute
     
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    Let me be honest with you, I would rather date a transguy than a born guy.
     
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    Yeah, why not.

    I mean, I'd like to think that I would date a trans guy. I'm not sure if we would be compatible, but hey you never know.
     
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    Depends on the guy :wink:
     
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    Being asexual, I wouldn't care. Although I will admit that looking androgynous is really attractive to me.
     
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    I don't really care what body parts my partners have or what gender identities they are, so yeah I'd totally date a transguy if he was cute and had a nice personality.
     
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