I often deal with fuzzy attractions to guys. It's pretty annoying. An example of this is guys with long hair who play guitar. I get drawn to them for some reason. I'm just not sure if I'm sexually attracted to them or not. A lot of them also show interest in me, so it makes things more confusing for me. I don't know what feelings are mine and which ones are his. I also worry about leading him on and seeming more attracted than I really am.
OH MY GOD I'm in the exact same situation, I LITERALLY AM ALSO DRAWN SPECIFICALLY to guys with long hair who play guitar. I am really not attracted to any males considered conventionally attractive but I do sort of have a thing for long-haired, "indie" guys, lol. I would say it's more of a romantic attraction for me and not sexual, but I'm still trying to figure that out myself. It also could just be the idea of them, or if I theoretically had to be a male then I could potentially see myself paired with them. Sort of like I know that I'd be sexually attracted to them and want to date them if I was straight, if that makes any sense. Sorry I can't give you much advice, just had to comment to let you know I'm in the same boat with the same type of guy, haha.
One thing I notice is that I don't get warm fuzzy feelings towards those guys. I do get warm fuzzy feelings when I have a crush on a girl. It seems like a lot of queer girls get confused by long haired guitarists.
Wait I said "if I theoretically had to be a male" and I meant "if o theoretically had to be straight." Couldn't figure out how to edit a post