so since I came out as gay last year (strange saying last year now !!) I find myself more and more masturbating over having sex with women, some of who I know , and I know it will only ever be a fantasy as I'm not sure if I'll ever have a female friend who would want to do that with me. But I still want to have a boyfriend , and I still get off when masturbating to guys.. why is this ? am I 80%gay and %20 bi or is there a thing as a bisexual gay guy?? thought I was going ok with this...
I wouldn't necessarily go off of masturbation and the fantasies that come with it as the most accurate thing for determining sexuality. A lot of people have rape fantasies but would most likely not enjoy that situation if it came about in real life. However, if you're thinking that you wouldn't be opposed to dating a female, you could be homoflexible or bisexual with a heavy preference toward guys. Homoflexibility is where you're primarily attracted to members of the same sex, however, if the right member of the opposite sex were to come along, you would be attracted to them as well. It's really up to you to identify how you want to using what you think best describes you.
