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When will it stop being a big deal?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by OnceUponADream, Jan 5, 2016.

  1. OnceUponADream

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    When will my sexual orientation stop being a big deal? When will I stop thinking about it so much?
     
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  2. Steve FS

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    For me personally, after about the 5th or 6th time of coming out to someone, it stops being a big deal. Your first gay relationship will also help.
     
  3. greatwhale

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    Sooner or later it will become a part of you, such that the thought of not being gay would seem strange.