This thread isn't about myself, it's just looking for opinions on something. I've heard that some "straight" men have their wives/girlfriends fuck them with a strap on. I have to say that I don't see how a man could do this without being something other than straight. I mean, they must be at least questioning, right? They'd have to be, right?
No need to put their orientation in parentheses. They're attracted to women, regardless of how they express that attraction under the sheets.
Very much this. Don't make the mistake of assuming that for men, "enjoys anal play" = "gay". Some gay/bisexual men don't enjoy anal play at all. One also wonders what you make of women who enjoy anal stimulation?
There was a bit on Cracked.com a few months ago about exactly this, and no, it doesn't make you gay. As any male who's bottomed before will tell you, having something penetrate your rectum hits your prostate which feels REALLY good. It's essentially the male G spot. http://i.crackedcdn.com/phpimages/photoshop/5/9/6/447596_v1.jpg
I think that any assumptions about people's orientation based solely on what they do in bed are hasty generalizations. Sure, societal norms say that guys who like anal sex are gay, but there are also people who are gay pornstars that consider themselves straight, as they are just doing the porn films for the money.
I agree with what others have said, and I actually find your question kind of offensive- you saying almost that a person is defined by their genitals.