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Why do I find gay guys attractive?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Vav, Jan 8, 2016.

  1. Vav

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    I generally don't find guys attractive. For some reason I kind of feel like I'm attracted to some gay guys. I'm not sure if it's true attraction.
     
  2. guitar

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    Gay guys take better care of themselves on the average, so maybe it's that?
     
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    Maybe it's wanting what you can't have? Or finding some sense of solidarity with them? You might also feel safer around gay guys.
     
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    Are those gay guys feminine? Maybe you're attracted to femininity in general.
     
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    I've had similar experiences, especially when I was questioning. I know that my interest in gay men is different than in straight men.. I think that in my case it has been safer, because neither of us would want the other in any more than a friend way, it would be pressure free and just easy. It would be easy to not want a guy if I kind of had an explanation. I don't know if that makes any sense. :grin:
     
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    Idk, I've always liked gay guys, so I thought I was just straight. Then I started liking girls too, and then I realized I wasn't a girl. So now I'm just a bi trans. I still like Gay guys above all else though. And Idk why.
    So it's probably still true attraction; you don't have to have an answer for it.
     
  7. Vav

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    Not really. They just fit the gay aesthetic. If I were to make a collage of the most good looking guys, people would think it's a collage of gay guys. I just find a muscular guy with a gay face attractive.
     
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    LoL. I guess most people find that attractive! :grin: