I thought I had finally figured it out but now I'm just not sure. I am a 26 yr old male and have never been with a guy but do find them attractive. I mainly watch gay porn . I have had sex with a woman multiple times but each time it felt good to me but I didn't cum, unless it was a blowjob or handjob. I still find women to be hot but lately am finding more men attractive. Am I bi with a prefrence to men or just gay
Firstly, porn isn't the best indicator of your sexuality. Most straight people get aroused by gay and lesbian porn. Bisexuality is also a sexual orientation that can fluctuate. Sometimes, you may find that you become more attracted to girls. Then other times, you could be largely attracted to guys. Bisexuality doesn't always have to be split evenly of 50-50.
What happens when you masturbate without porn? Do you find yourself fantasizing about guys or about girls? When you're out on the street, where do your eyes wander when you aren't paying attention? Are you looking at guys or at girls? These are the best indicators of where your sexual attraction and arousal lie. It's very common for people who are in the process of coming to terms with their sexuality to feel it shift. It's not that it actually shifts, but what happens is, as our denial comes down, and we allow ourselves to feel attraction to people of the same sex, our society-imposed sense of what we should be feeling slowly fades away. So it's not at all uncommon for guys who initially felt some attraction for women to find that sort of fading, and their desire to be with men growing stronger. IF that's the case, and if your fantasies and attractions are mostly toward men, and only a little, or not at all toward women, then you are gay or at the gay end of the spectrum. The clear answer may take months to clarify for you, so it may be one of those things you just have to take some time to understand.
I'm mainly masturbate fantasizing about men. However on the streets and I find women attractive as well as men. I guess I would say that I'm the gay side of bisexual.
I finally went on a date with a guy and kissed him. We also gave each other hand jobs I really enjoyed it.
