Hi, I am having trouble figuring out if I'm actually Bi or gay. I identify as female. I have never dated before but this is mainly because of a lack of interest (and i came from a small town) I have had a few casual encounters with a guy but it was kind of boring. With girls on the other hand (still little to no experience) I want to actively date them and when I picture my future its a wedding with two brides and when I think about "sex" with a guy i feel scared but when i think about it with a girl i don't feel scared. Is this just lack of experience with guys? But also when I have seen pictures of some male actors I really "liked" them. So am I gay or have not met the right guy yet? Thanks for the help:help: