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Am I attracted to girls?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Nordland, Jan 16, 2016.

  1. Nordland

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    So lately something has been bothering me a little. I've been wondering if I have any attraction to girls at all. I have always noticed if guys are good looking or not and felt some weird feeling that I have only realised over the last year what it is. I have crushed on many guys in my year at school and the idea of kissing or doing anything intimate with a guy turns me on. Now onto the part about girls. From 14 to about 15 I had a girlfriend who at the time I believed I was attracted to. Then looking back on it all I have realised that the only female crushes I have had were more personality based. About a year ago I would notice girls as pretty and feel a small sense of attraction. But now nothing. I'm beginning to wonder if I'm full on gay rather than homoflexible like I thought before. I'd be grateful for any other insights.
     
  2. NateC7

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    You may be pansexual which I think means gender doesn't matter whatsoever. You're just attracted to the person. Or you could homoromantic. Not interested in sex with girls but you want to be in a romantic relationship with one.

    Let me note that these are just possibilities. I cannot, nor do I have a right to say what you are for sure. I would look into these types of sexual orientations and see which one fits you best. I hope this helps :slight_smile:
     
  3. Nordland

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    Thank you :grin: