So, I have been wondering where I am on the sexual orientation spectrum quite a lot lately, wondering if I was bi or lesbian. I know I like girls, but there are moments where I think I am just lying to myself and since I support LGBT+ with all of my heart I just wish I was part of the community. Then there are moments where I think about myself being intimate with a boy and it doesnt gross me out, but it makes me so uncomfortable. Like, I cant see myself enjoying that with a boy, whilst with a girl it would just be... Right. With a male, it would be that unenjoyable thing where I dont know what to do and have no desire to do it. But with a girl, oh well, it would be a loving act which just feels right. Seems like I am a lesbian, right? Well, no, because then there are moments where I think of being intimate with a boy and it still isnt as good as with a girl, but it is still... Okay. I dont get it. And on the romantic side... I like boys and girls, but I couldnt say that I ever was in love, that I ever wanted to be with that person every second of the day. I like people and I make friends easily, but I feel like I had never had such a stong desire to be with someone. This will probably be clear to me someday, but right now, it just isnt at all. Any advice?
