I never thought from a young age I was gay but when I hit my teens I started to watch gay porn and then men started to turn me on and I had feelings for men and all I know is that is I want to be with a man and have a boyfriend but latley these thoughts of women happen and I don't like it there messing with my fantasy's and i m not sexually attracted to women I don't want to be with one and I'm not bisexual I want these to stop I'm happy being gay and can some think there gay but there not because I have had strong feelings for men and in was wondering is this a lie I hope not I really love being gay
Having intruding thoughts about women doesn't mean you are straight at all. I wouldn't worry about it. Honestly, I think people's sense of attraction varies over time, but if you're typically still more interested in same sex pursuits, I don't think this changes anything about your identity.
