A while ago, I wrote a post asking whether or not my sexual fantasies about men made me gay. Having sat on these mixed feelings and emotions for a while now, I feel it is time I should act. Since my last post, I would not say much has changed. I still have fantasies about gay sex, I will regularly watch gay (and straight) porn, although I would say I still feel attracted to women. I now feel the best way to figure this out is to experiment, physically. My question is what is the best way to go about doing this?
Alas, I have no advice as I am in the same boat. I'm not sure where you turn to when you're still figuring yourself out. But solidarity!
Don't, unless the person is consenting. What do you mean by "experiment"? I tried doing that( accidentally, looong story) and i nearly got in serious trouble for it. The mother of the boy doesn't want to bring her kids over to our house no more, and my mom says their fine and forgive me, even though i don't feel that's the case. Honestly, don't do what i did, you'll feel terrible for ever because you practically ruined someone elses life.
I think he meant experimenting through hook ups or relationships. Which are consenting, and not generally an issue.
