I knew I was gay from a young age 12-13 and I was wondering is this to young to figure out I'm gay hen I watched a YouTube video and this cute gay couple rod there coming out story and one of the guys says he was straight until he had growing feelings for males and I'm wondering if I was to young to figure out I was gay because still want to be with a man and have a boyfriend and I'm still attracted to them but then these thoughts of women are happening but I'm not attracted to them or sexually attracted to them and I was wondering if me finding out I was gay at a young age is a lie? I still want to be with a man and I'm still attracted to them
It depends- it's likely not a phase but there's a slight possibility it might be. Still, don't get too caught up in whether you're gay or not- if you like a boy, that's fine- if you like a girl, that's also fine. You could also be bisexual with a male preference... Many people do question their sexuality at a young age, and if you actually start thinking about and wanting to be with the same sex, it's very likely you aren't straight.
A phase can last years. But all you can do is accept the way you are now. If who you like changes so what. If you are gay or bi 'so what', the important thing is that you accept and love yourself.
I do I accept myself as gay And how do you know if its a phase becuase I first started to like men at 12 and now it's been 5 years so I don't think it's a phase
As we go through life all change and grow. The best way of figuring it out is to deal with how we feel now. So if it's a phase it's a phase, if it's not it's not. One thing I've gathered from being on this forum is "don't put yourself in a box " In other words it doesn't matter who or what you love , just be yourself and fuck the begrudgers.
