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Last virgin of my friend group (I'm Back After A Long Hiatus)

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by NamesNotJake, Jan 29, 2016.

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  1. NamesNotJake

    NamesNotJake
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    So yeah today is my 23rd birthday and I found out the only other friend in my group who was a virgin lost his virginity a few days ago, making me the only virgin of my friends and the oldest of the group. I just started to wonder if i'll EVER have sex. I'm starting to get to the point of impatience, but I don't want to just throw it away to anybody.

    It's just frustrating dealing with society's pressure to have sex.

    :help:
     
    #1 NamesNotJake, Jan 29, 2016
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  2. Ram90

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    Losing one's virginity is something personal. It's not a competition where you have to lose it to win some prize. I don't believe society pressures people to have sex, it is self-expectations we tend to have on ourselves. If you can get past that then there is no frustration and impatience.

    If you don't want to throw your virginity away for just somebody, then that is your choice. Stay firm on it and convince yourself you're doing nothing wrong by waiting. Positivity is the key.
     
    #2 Ram90, Jan 30, 2016
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    There's only one you. Take your time and find the love and connection you're looking for.
     
    #3 yellow2002, Jan 30, 2016
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    well there are ton of hook up apps out there for you to choose, pick whatever you want but what is the point of losing it? what would you gain if you lose it now and telling them you lost your virginity? so you can fit in with them? some std or std + hiv as a reward plus regret on top of that maybe? worth it? Don't be so hard on yourself, those that love you will appreciate you for who you are.
     
    #4 Aof, Jan 30, 2016
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