hi guys,.. I had my op last year to remove some problems down my groin area ( read on my old posts if you want ) any way, I haven't had sex (with either guy/girl) for almost 3 years and I still masturbate but not as often as I used to and my meds (depression and anxiety) do play with masturbation.. with reaching climax etc I might be meeting with a guy this week,and while its just a meet up to see if we like each other, I'm a little scared to have sex again, I know defiantly to use condoms, but its more of actually doing it that I'm scared of, like its been so long I don't know I'f I'll like it again.. guess I'm feeling anxious about all this, 3 years with out sex is a long time between drinks!! any thoughts??