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What is the issue?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Dasi200, Feb 7, 2016.

  1. Dasi200

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    I met this girl like 1 month ago, we are seeing each only for the weekends. And texting all day during the week.
    But shen we meet there awkard moment, we became silence loosing subject of whst to tslk about and idk why is that. She feels kinda distant at moments but she still looking forward to seeing me. I dont understand why ?
     
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    maybe she is just shy in person? I know that sometimes with my really good friends I can talk to them a lot via email, but when I see them it is hard to find subjects of conversation. It doesn't mean that I don't want to be with them when we meet up though.
     
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    It makes sense.
     
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    yeah I'm sure that's all it is :slight_smile: the fact that she is looking forward to seeing you is a good sign.
     
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    I mean it feels like we dont have connection at times and its awkard. Yeah it is. Btw i can be very shy and insecure.
     
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    well maybe her shyness coupled with yours make for awkwardness. I was pretty shy and insecure also (actually I still am lol), but I find the more people you interact with the less awkward things become. Just see how it goes. The worst thing that could happen is that you two aren't right for each other, but on the flip side this might be the start of a wonderful relationship. You two probably just need to go out more face-to-face :slight_smile:
     
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    Yeah when we are texting we text all day. And you can tell that we like each other alot. And i feel like I cant compare our relation with someone else i feel like its unique.
     
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    so there you go then :slight_smile: nothing to worry about. I wish you both lots of luck!