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Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Jhon1, Feb 11, 2016.

  1. Jhon1

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    I don't know why but recently I look at guys and i feel sick and I don't know wjy but maybe I'm just ill and don't know it but I like guys and I want to be with one plus these thoughts of women are doing my head in and I can't stand it because I'm not attracted to them I don't want to be with one but I have many friends that are girls that are very nice to me
     
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    hey Jhonlow, maybe you are just feeling societal pressures and that's why you are thinking about girls (that coupled with the fact you care about your friends) and feeling ill around guys? You seem pretty confident that you like men and don't like women, so they're probably just thoughts. I think you probably need to continue to self-reflect and learn more about yourself, but, regardless of the outcome of this, there is no need to be worried.
     
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    I just don't want to change because of this
     
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    Well you might not. You might find out you are the same orientation and that's that. Like I said, it might just be thoughts related to societal norms that are just surfacing now. Change isn't a bad thing though and truthfully you wouldn't be changing- you'd be the same person you always were- you'd just know it now.
     
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    I'm not going to change am I
     
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    you will always be you. I wouldn't worry so much about changing.