Im confused! i am a 'straight' (as in for the most part; i find women hot and have a girlfriend of 2 years who i love) but i have an increasingly consuming fantasy about being seduced by a much older gay guy. To the point where its the only porn i search for and i am catching myself accidentally giving the old men a second glance in the gym changing room. I am a muscular 26 year old so i dont think it would be too hard to find someone to seduce me but i love my gf and would be distraught if she found out, what should i do?
Hi jikka19, I'm assuming that you and your girlfriend are in a committed relationship. If so, I think it would be best (and fair to her) if you do not act on this fantasy until you break up with her. The other approach would be to disclose your intentions before acting on your fantasy. Both of these allow you to take the moral high ground. If you act on this and don't tell her, you'll start down the dark path and create a double life where you keep secrets from your GF. Other than the seduction by the older man, have you felt attraction to or had fantasies about other guys in other times of your life?
