The sexuality that I find the closest to how i feel so far would be a homoromantic bisexual, but that still doesnt feel "right" i guess you could say.... I usually just identify as a lesbian to avoid the questions and confusion. I've looked at the definition of homoromantic bisexuals and that would mean im sexually attracted to men, but i am not by no means, although i am physically attracted to men, just not emotionally or sexually. This is where it gets confusing for me. I am currently dating a transsexual male that was born female, although they do feel female occasionally (not very often). But I know I am not pansexual. I am most definitely not attracted to all genders. I've been thinking about this for far too long and I just want to figure out who I am.
Hugs... I don't know what to call mine either if that helps. It's like I want mostly feminine traits in a male body
Sexuality is complex, and if you can't find a term that fits you it's possible you're overthinking it. Maybe just find one that makes the most sense? In your case it's possible that there isn't a term for your sexuality that fits completely.