This is weird for me. Guess I'm just asking for advice or what you think? Anyways, I didn't think about sexuality until I was about 18. I never had a crush on a guy throughout elementary or high school. It wasn't until this guy was interested in me that I started going out. He wasn't too bad looking or anything but there was just nothing there. Things went on like that for awhile. I've done things with different guys, never had sex, but I've never felt attraction or anything for them. I thought I was asexual for awhile. I never considered being gay. Awhile ago I developed a crush for a girl- sounds so immature but that's what it was. Then this one time this girl touched my lower stomach while she was retelling this story and I've never felt anything like that. I'm kind of freaking out about it honestly. I'm 20 now and don't know if it was a one time thing or what. :confused I live in a city with one gay bar, so I'm not entirely confident to go experiment since a lot of people I know- who aren't straight- go there.