I was just wondering... do you think that if my first gay experience didn't turn out good that I may not be bisexual after all? I really enjoyed what we did, I just couldn't reach orgasm. Has anyone ever experienced this??
I think if you enjoyed everything else about the experience you don't have to worry. Orgasms aren't guaranteed. Sometimes you do, sometimes you don't.
It's common to have difficulty reaching orgasm your first time (or even first few times. Orgasm is a combination of physical, mental, and emotional factors and in most cases, all have to be aligned for it to happen. So if you were nervous or unsure or anxious -- even if consciously you were into it -- that could interfere with the ability to reach orgasm. If you enjoyed yourself and were into it, I think it's safe to say you're not straight