Hello Everyone. I recently came out as a lesbian after previously identifying as bisexual. I have always felt a strong connection with women and I still do.( This is hard to explain, please understand.) I recently was thinking that I was only attracted to idividuals who identify as cis gender women, but I'm realizing more and more that I just love. I don't really care how that person identifies (gender, expression, sexual orientation) and I'm aware that would make me pansexual. The probably is that I just told everyone I was lesbian after being bisexual and I don't want people to think I am just doing this all for attention. Especially my mum. So basically, I need help figuring out what to do. Should I just leave it for everyone to think I'm lesbian, should I correct them to my new term. I don't want to be seen as that girl that is indecisive and is only doing the whole orientation thing for attention.
