I have like a fear of girls. Not like a cute fear where I'm nervous to talk to them but like an actual one. I'm afraid to go up and talk to them because I've been chewed up and spit out a lot in the past. Girls can ruthless and I'm terrified of rejection. I think some of the fear stems from like my lack of confidence and low self-esteem. Thoughts? Any advice?
I would say it's definitely a matter of low self confidence, as I'm in the same boat. I've really liked some girls almost loved some of them without even knowing them. Sadly I never took the chances. You just need to step up and try, coming from a person who lives with a lot of regrets I would recommend giving it a shot. The worse that could happen is denial, and honestly you probably wouldn't even feel that bad but you would probably feel good knowing you tried. Hope I helped! Post on my wall if you want to chat.
