If u are bisexual, in most cases its no 50:50 for both genders but its usually assumed there´s the same "kind" of attraction which just "flows" or stay at some percentage level for example 80(attraction to men):20 (attraction to women), 70:30 etc.- one=the same feeling but with different intensity (expressed with percentage) But sometimes people have completely different kind of feeling towards different genders, feelings which cant be compare to each other and thus the percentage expression is irrelevant... which case is yours? if u have different feelings- what is the most significant difference in them for you?
I find different things attractive in different sexes. Generally, I'm most often attracted to females, but when I find a male whom I am attracted to, it is to a much higher intensity level. If you call "attraction" the area under the intensity vs. frequency curve, mine is about the same for males and females. By the way, I just threw calculus at you! I'm attracted to a personality type. Someone funny, who is confident but can laugh at themselves. Someone somewhere between the jock and class clown is super sexy. I do feel differently about them, though. I think it is because my own issues with fearing acceptance if I love a woman.
I've always been attracted to the mind and person. I knew as a child very young that boys and girls were attractive. I was the quiet scared boy. I was afraid of the me that liked same sex. I love an honest mind and person but the sexual part if it's shared is equal WOW if it's a penis or a vagina.
I've always been attracted to men. Now besides my significant other it is one woman. The rest of the earth's population is very confusing to me at this point.. Saw some of your previous threads - I am guilty of identifying her as possible bi or lesbian based on her choices of fashion etc.. I was wrong and sometimes it is difficult to remember how judgmental I may have come across.. Maybe romantic feelings played huge role in all this.
For me it's exactly the same and I don't understand the ratio any more. Men have some intensity bonus for smell. It must be chemical, pheromones. Good physical appearance is a must (aesthetically pleasing, smelling nice, grace of movements etc). Sexiness is a bonus too. Gender... I think I have a skew towards men, because of the smell. But women tend to give more effort to looking good and taking care of themselves, so it's confusing.
I objectify hot guys more. Girls I get rather invested in their personality, and just general energy... Like any guy in porn will do but with the girls... I have to find one that I actually like the look, acting, voice... its difficult haha. I'm definitely more over with the girls. Guys I get attracted to and sometimes I would really like to be with a guy but I've never fallen for a guy like I've fallen for girls... and my female celebrity crushes are my queens. Generally I'd rather have a girlfriend. ...Yeah it feels really different. With guys attraction is like a mixture of of a base sexual excitement and a cute idolisation. With girls its sort of like a hand has grabbed my heart and is pulling me towards them, and its a happiness just in beholding them and a strange sensual desire to touch and such. That's the only way I can describe it. Makes me sound really gay, which is why I've gone from "bi" to "lesbian" to "fuck a label" on EC. Don't really like any of them.
I used to think I was attracted 70% for girls 30% for men. but now I'm in a situation in which it's 50-50 . I think it can fluctuate
My trans boyfriend says that I'm 99.9% lesbian and .1% attracted to other trans folk. I think its 90 -10 actually, but it does fluctuate. But with trans individuals I think are hot there is an attraction, but i have way more reaction to women. Dream, think, and talk about them all the time. But I fight tooth and nail when someone calls me a lesbian.
