Alright, well. To start off, a bit of a profile about myself. Asexual and have always thought myself to be heteroromantic. Have only dated guys and have never felt anything for other girls. And although I am asexual, I would like to try sex sometime, but I would only do it with another guy. So yeah, it's always been dudes. I talk to others on the internet quite often. Recently, I built a friendship with a female trans person. She is not very far in transitioning yet. I've seen exactly one selfie of hers and when I heard her voice in voice chat playing a video game with her, she sounded very much male. I'm describing this because I feel like my subconscious probably registers her as male, based on her physical traits, confusing the whole "possibly kinda gay" thing. I don't video chat with her and I've voice chatted with her on only one occassion, so I also don't get to hear/see those still-male traits often at all. But anyway, she confessed a crush for me recently (which is honestly cute and flattering). I felt something. Something subconscious to reciprocate that, I guess, that felt like small flutterings of love (that feeling stuck around for a few hours but it's gone now)? But I'm not quite crushing on her yet. I also know I wouldn't be against trying out a relationship with her someday down the road. Anyway, even though I'm not crushing on her, that small feeling has been enough to bring me questioning. I mainly talk to her online through messaging, so my brain generally does not get a good sense of the gender of the person I'm talking to (because of a lack of visual). And whatever I've seen/heard of her means that the only memories I have of her physical atttributes are very masculine, so... To me, it feels like a funky situation. I accept that she is female and use the right pronouns, so based on those small feelings, is there a possibility I could actually be slightly homoromantic? Man, this post is kinda a mess. I'm really tired. Anyway, thanks for any help.
Sure. there is that possibility. or she's an exception. Or you're perceiving her as male. How would things go forward in the future ideally? Do you see yourself involved romantically with someone in the future and if so, who?